Last night was our first night together in a long time, and what happened? Nothing. I fell asleep on the couch and she slept in the bed. Does anyone else find it weird that we haven't seen one another in over a month and there were no sexual relations last night????
I don't know I guess I am a firm believer that you need a healthy sex life in order to make a relationship work. Without that you are basically close friends without benefits. In all honesty I think this happens in most relationships. Everything starts out great, but when that lust is over, you are left with the feeling of what's next. I feel like so many people out there fall into the trap of being too comfortable with a person, and thus substituting it for love. They are afraid to move on, because they will never find another person they can be themselves with. This is a tragedy because the one day they are ready to move on, they realize life has already moved on without them. Most of their friends have found someone, and probably even married, which makes it even more difficult to find 'the one'.
So how do you get out of the thought process that you will never find someone else. Well I guess you could do what I am doing. I am not going to work at making something work, I just want to let things happen. Maybe I will go out one night and meet the girl of my dreams, and everything will fall into place, then again maybe I won't. The key thing I need to remember is that nights like last night, where there are almost no feelings or emotions at all, isn't what I want...